Dealing with Difficult People

As I take another journey into the unknown, I try to remain positive. I have decided to change careers and an age where other's have completely settled in. I find that every days is not a bed of rose but I pray that at least there will be some good one. I found myself in a situation where I have to deal with a few difficult people. I suppose it's necessary to have to take the road less travel... and I have. True, my life could be easy but sometimes the rules change and you have to reshuffles the cards you've been dealt. Back to the topic of this article... difficult people or I should say ignorant people. I hate to say this but sometimes stereotypes are true. That being said... sometimes, when dealing with your own race, you have to turn a cold shoulder. I find myself in between a rock and a hard place. When someone does something totally uncalled for... you can either laugh about it or totally distance yourself from them. Either answer is fine but what if you don't have to option to distance yourself? You have to lean how to deal with trashy, ignorant and impossible people.

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